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Learn More About Strap On Dildos

No penis, no problem! With a strap-on dildo, you can give your partner the ride of their life, whether that means slowly and sensually or something more intense.

Perfect for lesbian sex and female domination fun, strap-ons are versatile sex toys and come in several varieties. But what are they, what types can you buy, and what products do we stock at Sex Harmony? I am here to answer your questions. 

What is a Strap On Dildo?

A strap-on dildo is a one or two-piece sex toy, consisting of a phallic-shaped dildo and a harness. These sometimes come separately, although some manufacturers bolt the dildo to the harness for ease of use.

You can use strap-on dildos in penetrative sex (both anal and vaginal). Like all dildo types, strap-ons come in numerous sizes and materials and with different features. For instance, some strap-ons vibrate, giving the receiver extra sensations! 

Why Choose a Strap On Dildo?

Lesbians love strap-on dildos, as they offer more penetration possibilities and can help create a dominant and submissive dynamic in the bedroom. However, if the wearer wants orgasmic satisfaction as well, a strapless dildo could be a better choice.

Strap-on dildos are also perfect for pegging as part of female domination play. Once the dildo is firmly attached to the wearer, they can thrust away in various positions. This gives the receiver more intense anal stimulation than a standard toy provides.

Types of Strap On Dildos For Sale at Sex Harmony

At Sex Harmony, we pride ourselves on stocking quality and variety – and our dildo strap-on collection is no different. 

Soft Silicone

Silicone is a stellar sex toy material with an ultra-softness that makes it excellent for pain-free penetration. If you plan on pegging a partner inexperienced with anal play, smooth silicone is the best material you could choose for a strap-on.

Medical-grade silicone is non-porous, safe, and easy to clean. You don’t have to worry about bacteria or mold embedding into the dildo. However, you must look after silicone dildos by only using water-based lubricants. 

Phthalate-free PVC

PVC is a go-to material for several strap-on brands – some companies market these toys as jelly rubber. They are usually slightly bendy and have a soft, lifelike feel, making them popular with folks seeking a realistic finish.

The leading manufacturers of PVC sex toys use body-safe and fragrance-free materials with absolutely no phthalates. These are essential requirements when shopping for a realistic strap-on dildo. 

Strap-on and Harness Set

Choosing a strap-on and harness set simplifies your situation. You don’t need to worry about compatibility and whether the dildo will remain firmly in position when penetrating – that’s imperative for hassle-free fun!

If you already have a harness-compatible suction cup dildo, you could save money by purchasing a harness separately. If not, buying a one-piece strap-on is a more cost-effective solution.

How to Use a Strap On Dildo

Slide into the harness and ensure it fits snugly and comfortably. The best strap-on dildos neither feel loose nor a chore to wear.

If the dildo and harness are separate, attach them before putting on the strap. And before you begin riding your partner, take a moment to acclimatize to wearing the harness and adjust if needed. It should feel as natural as possible. 

Always use lube (water-based if your toy is silicone!) and start slowly. Try different positions to see what works and play with different thrusting depths and rhythms. After all, strap-on wearers are usually new to doing the penetrating!

How to Clean a Strap On Dildo

Give your strap-on a deep clean after every use – you don’t want any nasty infections lurking and multiplying on the toy. Yuck!

Start by rinsing the toy with water and wipe away any surface residue. Scrub with toy cleaner or warm, soapy water and rinse again with clean water. Find a discreet, airy space, and allow the strap-on to air-dry on a clean towel.

Is a Strap On Dildo Right for Me?

Maybe! Strap-ons are brilliant whether you are straight, gay, bi, trans... in short, they are for everyone! If you will enjoy them is another matter, but strap-ons don’t exclude anybody – and if you love to sexually experiment, they could be for you.

The closest alternative to a strap-on is a strapless dildo. And if you aren’t sure about either, view our entire collection of dildos to find a better match.